Hai Guys... Hope you all are Good and doing great. Thanks for your responses for my previous blog write up. Now, let's go into the other that I have for you.
What if I tell you we do not live our life? we live in a Virtual Life?! Oh My God! Oh No! Could be some of the refractions you may feel in your minds. But I say Yes. We do not actually live the life the way we wanted to, it is others who decide or intensify how we need to live. Let us see how our mind actually takes the inputs.
Say, My favourite colour is red. Some say Blue or green is nice to me. My mind analyses and ofcourse it prefers blue or green to red. I go to eat and sometimes I can't find the one I really wanted, So I go with what is left to me. We often react to certain issues just because someone as reacted to it. If someone has got good marks we look for the same, if someone gets into a good job, gets car, buy home etc, we too desire to attain them. The most famous habit of story or status updating in social media is this. From to School to job everywhere in many things we do this.
Many times we feel flexible and adjustible to the situations though they are good habits that one should have, it duplicates the essence of our life. These could be our explicit choices and chances. But these kind of other's influences can even reshape our thoughts and thoughts induced intentional actions. There's a famous "Stanford Prison Experiment" which proved that our actions depend on the associates we have and the social environment. We're the average of our close friends. Think about the words we use often, the style we do, the action we make etc,. Everything we do often is the average habit of your closest people. So, they influence we were influenced by others.
We may have a dream, an aim or an ambition in life which wouldn't have indegenously born from us. Someone's impact or some scenes in our life would have made to think. The way we see our life and people are from the experiences we had in the past. So, there's always a different perspective from all of us. We wish to do something ,but due to the warnings which might be either good or bad we need to discontinue the process.
Remember one thing we and our actions are the by products of the others more often. People with whom we closely associate can make or break us. You can test this during your group discussions. One's point always impacts the other and following points.
Though it might sound simple these wrongful like minded thoughts have played major roles in the society from crimes to doing good. It is indeed important thing in our life to choose the social environment we really want to have. All the Good and Bad habits are cultivated through this. Have the positive, Good and Healthy environment around you which you feel can enhance your progressive growth in your life.
Yes. We live a Virtual Life More often, but we shall try to find those impacts on us created by others and eliminate or mitigate to live our life as we wanted to.
Cheers! Take care!!
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